This is for you, WH. hehe, hope u'll be blessed.
To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I cannot do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
It is the realisation that I do not control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
I can only change myself.
To let is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective,
it is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and to cherish the moment.
To let go is not to regret the past
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more
- taken from Asian Beacon, Dec 2004/Jan 2005